Thursday, April 9, 2009

it's just fine without Ar


jadi....
so...

semalam tiba giliran Ir untuk diajak pergi. ternyata suasananya beda banget dengan ketika Ar yang diajak pergi.
last night was Ir's turn. it was totatlly different with when Ar's turn.

di perjalanan anaknya enjoy aja. menikmati duduk dari satu sisi jendela ke sisi yang lain. merasa bebas, karena biasaya bertiga rebutan siapa yang mau duduk deket jendela.
dia minta diajak ke warung yang sama dengan waktu Ar diajak dulu. sampai di sana dengan mantabnya dia pesen jus jeruk.
along the way he enjoyed moving from side to side on the back seat. my kids usually fight over the seat next to the window.
he asked us to go to the same cafe we weht with Ar. he sat and no-doubtfully ordered for orange juice

memang tidak seribut kalau berdua Ar, tapi dia jalan-jalan muter muter warung. nemu tempat tusuk gigi yang lucu, dan itu yang dia pakai mainan selama di situ.
berdiri di jendela dan melihat keluar, 'oh... itu kolam yang ada ikannya itu kan?'
pergi pipis sendiri ke toilet. makan kentangnya. santai banget.
'enak ga dik pergi ga ngajak Ar?'
'enak aja...'

not as noisy as if Ar was with him, but he walked around the cafe. found a funny toothpick case, and that was he was busy with all the time.
he stood up next to a window and looked out side. 'oh... that's the pool with the fish in, isn't it?'
he want to the toilet by himself, and enjoyed his fries
'is it great to go without Ar?'
'it's just fine...'

waktu pulang Ar juga sudah tidur. Ir langsung cuci kaki, gosok gigi, lalu datang ke kamarku, 'cium'. dan pergi tidur.
when we got him Ar was also already asleep. Ir washed his hand and feet, brushed his teeth, come to me for a 'kiss', and off to bed.

aku jadi ingat, memang dulu waktu minggu-minggu pertama masuk sekolah, selalu Ar yang nyusul Ir di kelasnya, dan bukan sebaliknya. aku senang, paling tidak salah satu dari mereka tidak terlalu tergantung pada yang lain...
this remain me to the fact, that on their first days schooling, it was Ar who always looked for Ir and went to his class. Ir never did. I'm glad. at least one of them don't depend too much to the other.

salah satu hal lagi yang membuat mereka menjadi 'cermin'
one more fact about them as mirrors...

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13 comments:

Heather said...

It is funny how their nights were so different. I'm glad Ir got along okay with out his brother. I think it is really great you take them out for their own time with you and their dad.

Michelle said...

My cousin has twins and one is far more dependent on his twin than the other is.

Wayne said...

I Guess that is a good thing. I think that they will always depend on each other in a way.

great photo friday

Izzy 'N Emmy said...

It's great to see the outcome of both of these stories. I am sure as they get older their relationship will change and it will always be for the better.

Tiaras and Tantrums said...

my little brothers are twins and your stories remind me so much of my memories of them

Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

They are individuals! Funny how one depends on the other more. Twins are such a fun study, huh?!

Are You Serious! said...

♥ I know mine aren't identical of course but Eliza has always been just fine with out Lane but Lane liked having Eliza around... :) I love to see the differences between twins! :)

angie said...

I really love reading about your twins!

Shellie said...

It's so fun to see twins similarities and differences. Mine are so alike yet so very different. Love the shot with the toothpicks!

latree said...

I always find new interesting facts about them, and yes, it's fun!

nino said...

waktu kecil aku selalu berantem sam adikku, bahakan sering terpikir, "ih, ngapain sih ada elo?".
tapi sekarang udah jauh gini, aku sering kangen sama dia..hhe

forgetfulone said...

Isn't it great to see how they act so differently, yet they are so much alike? Is your daughter going to get a special day, too?

The Burp Cloth Babe said...

Well, it is good you are challenging them! Those are cute photos!