Thursday, February 4, 2010

the change



Sasa used to be a funny girl. she likes to play and some times bite me a little. my hand, my cheek, my nose.
dulu, Sasa itu kucing yang lucu dan lincah. dia suka bermain, kadang-kadang gemas dan menggigit aku di pipi, di tangan, di hidung.

I noticed she became calmer when she started pregnant. all she wanted to do was lazy. I remember I was in my lazy first weeks of my pregnancy. my children said that I and Sasa were two lazy pregnant mommies. o yeah.
aku perhatikan dia jadi agak kalem semenjak hamil. maunya malas-malasan aja. aku ingat waktu itu aku juga lagi mulai hamil dan malas-malasan juga. anak-anak menyebut aku dan Sasa dua ibu hamil yang pemalas.



Sasa is now a mother to these two lovely kittens. so, after the pregnancy is over, has the laziness gone? yes. but the old Sasa didn't come back. I now see her as a grown up lady who moves elegantly. she always be aware looking after her babies. she doesn't like to play anymore. a mother.
sekarang Sasa adalah ibu dari dua cemeng kecil lucu ini. jadi, setelah selesai hamil, apakah 'malas'nya juga pergi? iya, tapi Sasa yang dulu tidak kembali. sekarang aku lihat dia jadi wanita dewasa yang anggun. dia selalu waspada menjaga anak-anaknya. ngga suka bermain lagi. seekor ibu kucing.

so I look at my self and try to see if there was any same kind of changes after I became a mother. but I found out that I'm still the same silly girl with crazy things in my head. being a mother didn't put out my 'insanity'. I still do some silly and (some times) childish things that make me look less like a grown up lady.
aku melihat diriku sendiri dan mecoba menemukan perbedaan setelah aku jadi ibu. ternyata aku masih gadis konyol dengan hal-hal gila yang melintas di kepala. jadi ibu tidak melenyapkan sintingku. aku masih melakukan hal-hal yang menurut orang sudah bukan porsi ibu-ibu.



I don't know if it is a good or a bad thing. some may say I'm not normal, but I do feel there is nothing wrong being a silly mommy. just as long you take a good care of your family...
aku ngga tahu ini bagus atau buruk. orang boleh bilang aku ngga normal, tapi aku rasa ngga ada yang salah menjadi ibu yang agak konyol. selama keluarga tetap diurus aja...

the question is, can I?
pertanyaannya adalah, bisa tidak?


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20 comments:

Michelle said...

Oh no, I'm feeling lazy and I'm not pregnant!!

Congrats to the kitty mommy. Kitties are so much fun.

Cecily R said...

I for one, think you staying silly is a good thing. How else are we to survive motherhood if not to laugh through it??

DaBudges said...

Very cute! And if we couldn't be silly once in a while, we would all go CRAZY! Yay for silly mommies :D

utmomof 5 said...

I sure hope being a silly mommy is okay because otherwise I am in BIG trouble :)

Happy PSF!

Robyn said...

There is nothing wrong with a silly mommy.

Casey's trio said...

Every mommy can be lazy every once in awhile and you can never be too old to be silly:)

Lolli said...

I certainly changed after I had kids, but not too much. :)

Chris said...

In my opinion, being silly makes you a GREAT mother!

Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

Cute kittens.
I think as a mom you have to also have fun and that helps you be a good one... if you're willing to play with your kids and be silly! Keep up the good work.

Steph said...

Silly is great! I love being a silly mommy too!

Life with Kaishon said...

What a beautiful post. The pictures are just lovely. And the thought of your silliness as a parent brightened my day! Life is too short to be serious all the time.

Mama Zen said...

Absolutely!

LeAnn * ~ See Great Things said...

Silly is a good thing! Darling kittens you got there. ~

Kelli @ Gohn Crazy said...

I think as long as you are taking care of your kids, if you can still be silly you are all that better of a mother! :) Fun picture and adorable cats.

Are You Serious! said...

♥ Of course you can!!! I think it's fabulous! :)

Janean said...

as long as you don't bring shame on your family....be silly, crazy, fun and ENJOY your life journey!!! woohoo!!

Kingkilaban said...

sure you can.. :-)

Forgetfulone said...

I'm a silly mom, too! It's fun! I bet your kids just love it. And I love the kittens!

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